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December 7, 2023

The antidote for holiday stress may be in Scripture

by Joseph and Ana Arista White

It’s that time of year again — that holiday time when everything seems to go a little faster. Signs in stores announce the number of shopping days until Christmas, television commercials announce the new items the family “must have” this year, and the kids are full of energy in anticipation of their favorite holiday. When all this happens within the context of a culture that is driven by efficiency, immediacy and newness, parents can go into high gear. The result? Stress!

The Church Year

Contrast this with what is happening in our Church year. We have reached the end of Ordinary Time and have come to a period of quiet. We hear Scriptures about being prepared, not materially but spiritually. We sing songs about waiting in darkness and longing for the light.

Could it be that the antidote for holiday stress may be as close as our Catholic faith?

St. Paul tells us in Galatians 5:22 that patience is a “fruit” of the Spirit. Patience is difficult in a culture of instant gratification. We catch ourselves honking the horn when the light has been green for three seconds and the car in front of us hasn’t moved. We sigh and roll our eyes when we’re in line and the person behind the counter has to go to the back to get something. We even rush to end mealtime conversations with friends and family so we can check more items off the list.

Could it be that in our rush to get things done, we are forgetting to really live? Jesus said, “I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly” (Jn 10:10, RSV). How can we make our hearts and homes open to the life that only Christ can bring as we prepare to celebrate His coming into the world?

Celebrate Advent

Perhaps, this year, it’s time to truly celebrate Advent. Place an Advent wreath in a prominent place. Make a special effort to have meals together and light the candles, praying together at these times. Be conscious of, and participate in, parish observances of St. Nicholas Day, Dec. 6, the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Dec. 12, and (if you are in an Hispanic parish) Las Posadas. Use an Advent calendar, and keep Christmas decorations to a minimum until Christmas arrives. You may even wish to save at least some Christmas gifts for Epiphany, when gifts are exchanged in many other countries.

Consider doing good works as a family for the poor in your community, or help out a little extra at your parish. Spend some time making gifts for one another. Being deliberate about our observance of Advent can send a powerful message to our children: This is not just a time to “wait it out” but a time to grow.

The Greatest Gift

When Christmas finally arrives, make it a point to share that the greatest gift of all was God’s gift of himself — Jesus Christ. Wrap the baby Jesus from your Nativity scene in a gift box, and open that gift first when gifts are exchanged. If you have young children, you may wish to lead them in singing “Happy Birthday” to Jesus.

No matter how you celebrate, now is a great opportunity to teach your children the meaning of the old adage, “Good things come to those who wait.”

“They who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles” (Is 40:31, RSV).

This content comes to you from Our Sunday Visitor courtesy of your parish or diocese.

You, too, can "carry love"

December 7, 2023
Barb began the visits a few years ago, when her children were young and she wanted them to understand that Advent and Christmas are about more than receiving gifts. She contacted her parish and asked if there was someone who might need a little extra attention and care during this season. As a result, her family cooked special meals, brought homemade gifts and, most importantly, spent time with Edward, a homebound man who savored their time together. What started as a December activity turned into a year-round relationship, and Barb’s family has remained close to Edward. He relishes the time they spend together, telling Barb’s children stories of his younger years, and listening to the youngsters’ tales of school friends, activities and adventures. On one visit, a ritual was born. After their initial greeting and catching up, Edward, Barb and her children each share something for which they are thankful: simple things that help them know God’s love and that have touched them since the last time they were together. Barb’s children have begun preparing their “thank-yous” in advance, anxious to share with Edward the most special parts of their lives. For his part, Edward says being mindful of things for which he is grateful helps him focus on his blessings. He no longer lingers so much in the frustration and loneliness of life. Last month, as they visited and shared their special moments of gratitude, Edward shared something that touches Barb still. He said: “When you come to visit me, you carry with you so much more than food or a gift. You carry love, and for that, I am very grateful!” This article comes to you from Grace In Action ( Our Sunday Visitor ) courtesy of your parish or diocese.

December 6, 2023

December 7, 2023
Mt 15:29-37 People with illness and disabilities are brought to Jesus who heals all of them. Those who witness this are amazed. Jesus, conscious of their need to eat performs another miracle by multiplying a meager amount of food to feed them all. Blessed, broken and shared — with the crowd on the mountain then and with us gathered today. St. Nicholas, pray for us. This content comes to you from Our Sunday Visitor courtesy of your parish or diocese.

Trust in Him completely

December 7, 2023
“I think the heavenly Father is most displeased when he sees that his children do not trust in him completely: perhaps they believe in a distant God more than in the merciful God. In many there may also arise the uncertainty that God, although Father, is also a master. Thus it may seem better not to trust in him completely, because he could ask for something that is too demanding or even send a trial. But this is a great deception: it is the ancient deception of the enemy of God and of man, who camouflages reality and conceals good with evil. It is the first temptation: to distance oneself from God, intimidated by the suspicion that his paternity is not truly provident and good.” — Pope Francis Reflection : Which statement do you find easier to accept: (a) God is distant and overly demanding, or (b) God is merciful and only provides for your good? What tempts you to distance yourself from God? When do you trust the heavenly Father completely? This content comes to you from Our Sunday Visitor courtesy of your parish or diocese.
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